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Contentment in a Culture of More: Learning the Secret of Contentment

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Effie Ochago

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If there ever was a time when people desired more, it is now. More possessions, more money, more success, more recognition, more entertainment, more experience, more of everything. Every single day, through a deluge of advertisements, entertainment, and social messages, we are constantly reinforced to be unhappy with our current circumstances.

We’re told that genuine fulfillment will come from the next bigger house, the newer car model, or the more exotic vacation.

This cultural push toward more creates in us a restless, dissatisfied heart. Paul the apostle, who had lived in both deprivation and abundance, said it in different terms: “I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content” (Philippians 4:11). He understood that genuine contentment does not stem from the size of one’s bank account or the extravagance of one’s circumstances, but rather from knowing Christ.

When our attention is diverted from Jesus to acquisitions, positions, and other people’s lives, discontent naturally sets in.

Complete dependence on Christ is the greatest antidote to materialism. When our attention is diverted from Jesus to acquisitions, positions, and other people’s lives, discontent naturally sets in.

This dissatisfaction causes us to compare our circumstances with those of others, which only leads to dissatisfaction: “Until God is enough, nothing else will ever be,” as some well-intentioned writers claim. And perhaps that’s not so far off the mark.

When we expect money, love, or success to satisfy the deepest parts of ourselves, we will get disappointed because they simply cannot, for only Jesus can do that.

Having said that, God does not ignore our material needs. Jesus Himself taught: “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you” (Matthew 6:33). So while it’s foolish to set our affections on material possessions and “seek more,” it is not presumptuous to ask God to provide our material needs as we diligently seek first His kingdom.

Here are five real-life indicators that will show you the state of the heart that is learning to find contentment in Jesus Christ:

1. You give thanks for what you already have from God. Content people naturally offer thanks to God habitually. They may have difficult days, but their default posture is to trust God’s goodness rather than be ruled by circumstances. When we show gratitude, we’re less interested in what’s missing in our lives than in how God has faithfully supplied. Rather than looking at our lives based on what we’re lacking, we consider the faithful provision that’s already been gifted to us by God, and we’re thankful for His faithfulness. Gratitude has the power to change our perspectives.

2. You can share and celebrate other people’s blessings without being tempted by jealousy. Because you are not living the ‘compare and despair’ lifestyle, it is natural for you to share and rejoice in other people’s successes. If someone receives a promotion, gets married, purchases a home or lands an amazing deal – your heart is quick to rejoice without ever feeling that sense of ‘why not me.’ Contented believers understand God’s plan for their own unique lives and have confidence in God’s timing and plan for the lives of their loved ones.

3. Your peace is not dependent on your current financial state. No matter what you have or what you don’t, your hope, confidence, and peace remain fixed on the faithfulness of God. This does not mean you become irresponsible; it simply means that the ups and downs of your bank account will not cause you to waver because you recognize God as your provider.

4. You possess an open hand toward material possessions, not a tight fist. Those with a content heart do not try to cling to the things of this world. They hold possessions with an open hand, being quick to share what they have and quick to give towards the purposes of God. This can be one of the truest signs that the power of money is losing its grip over your heart.

5. You prioritize God’s Kingdom over earthly success. The satisfaction that we find in Christ will cause us to reorder our lives with a whole new set of priorities. The drive to become rich or successful will pale in comparison to the call of Christ. Your ultimate goal will not be wealth or prestige, but to know Christ more closely. The amazing part is that when you set your gaze upon His Kingdom and seek Him first, God will faithfully provide all the other needs.

These markers are not meant to establish a standard of perfection, but to encourage growing toward satisfaction in Jesus Christ. If it still seems far off, don’t be discouraged. The Holy Spirit is at work in you even now. Contentment doesn't come instantly but through learning to trust Jesus in all aspects of our lives. Let God’s word refresh your mind each day, and eventually you will find rest. When we focus on His face, contentment will come naturally.

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